First Bit of Stress

So I am starting to get stressed out over the Church and the reception hall. I really want a center aisle but my Fiancee's whole family got married at this one church that does not have a center aisle. Thats the first conflict. The second is comeing from the food and caterer. Most of the reception places around town do their own caterering, but everyone wants me to go with this outside caterer - meaning more money, in my opinion. I really just want to book the Church and reception place now, so we can officially have our date set. Everything else can wait a while more to figure out...